The Reset for Love Story

HOW RESET FOR LOVE WAS BORN

At 25, I had a breakdown that became my breakthrough.

Impressive job? Check.

Living in a badass city? Check.

Friends? Check.

On paper, I was winning. But in reality, I was struggling. And my relationships tended to start strong but fizzle out or drain me.

So I made a decision to figure myself out, no matter what.

For the next decade, I was inadvertently obsessed with understanding what creates real connection. I devoured books. Enrolled in personal development programs. Spent years in therapy. But the fundamental transformation came through hypno coaching, where I finally learned to drop the armor and meet myself.

After much persuasion, I went all in on learning how to help others: ICF coach training, certification in hypnotherapy, ELI Master Practitioner training, studies in Gottman, IFS, and Compassionate Inquiry.

After years of studying, I synthesized everything into a method that actually works.

I transformed my life, not because I'd become perfect, but because I'd become whole.

Today, I guide high-achievers to find themselves, and from that place, attract extraordinary love and life.

With deep respect for your journey,

Maria Vino
Founder of Reset for Love
ICF Certified Coach | Certified Hypnotherapist | ELI Master Practitioner | COR.E Dynamics Specialist

WHAT MAKES RESET FOR LOVE DIFFERENT

I don't teach you to date. I teach you to love, starting with yourself.

While others focus on apps and first-date tips, I work at the root: rewiring the unconscious patterns that keep brilliant people stuck in subpar romantic loops.

My approach combines:

  • Neuroscience-backed subconscious reprogramming: Using hypnotherapy to literally rewire limiting beliefs at the neural level.
  • Somatic nervous system work: Teaching your body to stay open in intimacy instead of armoring up.
  • Strategic action planning: Because insight without integration is just expensive theory.

What makes this actually work:

  • We regulate your nervous system to handle true intimacy.
  • We build new neural pathways that support both ambition AND connection.
  • We create a personalized roadmap based on YOUR values, not society's timeline.

This isn't about becoming someone else. It's about integrating all parts of you: the driven professional AND the person who longs to be held.

WHAT I STAND FOR

Love isn't a luxury reserved for the lucky. It's a learnable skill.

After guiding 50+ high-achievers, I know this:

  • Your standards aren't too high. Your strategies are just misaligned.
  • You don't need to dim your light. You need someone who can handle your brightness.
  • The right relationship energizes your success, not threatens it.
  • True partnership begins with nervous system safety, not perfect compatibility scores.

If you're ready to master the one area where trying harder doesn't work, you're in the right place.

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HOW RESET FOR LOVE WAS BORN

At 25, I had a breakdown that became my breakthrough.

Deloitte. New York. On paper, I was winning. In reality, I was drowning. My relationships followed the same pattern — promising starts that fizzled or drained me.

So I made a decision: I would figure me out, no matter what.

For the next decade, I became obsessed with understanding what creates real connection. I devoured books on attachment theory. Enrolled in personal development programs. Spent years in therapy. But the real transformation came through coaching — where I finally learned to drop the armor and meet myself.

When multiple mentors said "Maria, you need to do this work with others," I listened. I went all in: ICF certification, clinical hypnotherapy, ELI Master Practitioner training, studies in Gottman, IFS, and Compassionate Inquiry.

More importantly, I synthesized everything into a method that actually works.

At 33, I met and married my husband. Not because I'd become perfect, but because I'd become whole.

Today, I guide high-achievers to find themselves first. Because from that place, extraordinary love becomes inevitable.

With deep respect for your journey,

Maria Vino
Founder of Reset for Love
ICF Certified Coach | Clinical Hypnotherapist | ELI Master Practitioner


WHAT MAKES RESET FOR LOVE DIFFERENT

I don't teach you to date. I teach you to love — starting with yourself.

While others focus on apps and first-date tips, I work at the root: rewiring the unconscious patterns that keep brilliant people stuck in romantic loops.

My approach combines:

  • Neuroscience-backed subconscious reprogramming — Using clinical hypnotherapy to literally rewire limiting beliefs at the neural level
  • Somatic nervous system work — Teaching your body to stay open in intimacy instead of armoring up
  • Strategic action planning — Because insight without integration is just expensive theory

What makes this actually work:

  • We regulate your nervous system to handle true intimacy
  • We build new neural pathways that support both ambition AND connection
  • We create a personalized roadmap based on YOUR values, not society's timeline

This isn't about becoming someone else. It's about integrating all parts of you — the driven professional AND the person who longs to be held.

WHAT I STAND FOR

Love isn't a luxury reserved for the lucky. It's a learnable skill.

After guiding 50+ high-achievers to lasting partnership, I know this:

  • Your standards aren't too high — your strategies are misaligned
  • You don't need to dim your light — you need someone who can handle your brightness
  • The right relationship energizes your success, not threatens it
  • True partnership begins with nervous system safety, not perfect compatibility scores

If you're ready to master the one area where trying harder doesn't work, you're in the right place.

“I had felt an overwhelming sense of stagnation prior to working with Maria. I'd tried meditation and telling myself my issues were 'minor,' which just led to pent-up resentment. Maria's approach was unlike anything I'd experienced. Through our work, I built confidence. Now I can accept my imperfections without spiraling. I've stopped obsessing over how others perceive me and started focusing on what actually matters. My relationships have improved because I'm no longer anxious about letting everyone down.


If you're a high-achiever stuck in self-sabotage patterns, Maria will show you the other paths you can't see yet. Yes, it's an investment — but the ROI on finally getting out of your own way? Priceless.

RYOH S. | DATA ENGINEER

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